Here is quiet sanctuary within Solace Atlas where people like you were kind enough to share their thoughts, feelings and reflections. It’s a way to help others through similar difficult times.
Live a life worthy of theirs. Honor them by showing up every day in a way that would honor them
Everyday hurts, but every day is another chance to absolutely crush it in honor of your loved one. I promise they’d be proud of you for trying.
It’s hard not to be angry at people who don’t have loss like this, but at the same time, loss is so universal. We all lose someone eventually. Remember that while it’s normal and okay to be mad. It’s also good to take a step back and think about how even when people can kinda suck…. we’re in this together.
Find ways to connect so people don’t feel the way you feel. Find ways to support others through their big losses and big pain. Hold the people you have left close.
And always, always remember that grief is love with nowhere else to go, and even though it doesn’t “help”, we are lucky to have loved so hard that we hurt this much. Not everyone gets that.